How do Men Really Feel about Ms. Bisexual?

How can a man compete with a gender with which they do not share the same body parts?

A woman can never truly sexually compete with a man.  There is no way she can recreate with a sex toy, or any other foreign object, the intimate process that creates a life.

A woman will never be able to compete with or recreate the 4000 pounds of pressure applied when a man is stroking up and down, round and round, in and out. It’s the equivalent of trying to place a prosthetic leg in place of a real leg. Yes, it works, but it will still never have the feeling of a real leg naturally attached to one’s body–the keyword being “naturally.”

Two women having sex with each other in the middle of the night can perhaps create love and emotional bonds between the two; however, it will not naturally produce life. If all women dated women and all men dated men, the world population would cease to exist in a little more than 100 years. It is nature that shows you the true results of your actions. We’re not saying it’s right or wrong for women to be with women or men to be with men, but what we are saying is that if this behavior were dominant in our society, these very same men and women would have no one to bump and grind with in a very short period of time.

They would be dead from natural causes as much as from disease or anything else. Sodom and Gomorrah, from our Bible history, are a reflection of our modern-day society. In that story, God, or the universe, was displeased with our human behavior. We’re not judging anyone. We believe in love. We believe that a world filled with love, even if it’s men with men and women with women, is better than a world filled with war and hate. We’ll take that deal any day.

As men, we are not concerned with sexually being able to compete with a woman.

Mental Challenges

The only real concerns are the mental challenges and confusion that result when confronting a woman who goes back and forth between men and women.

Question: As a man, how can you know she is satisfied with you?

Answer:  How can a woman know if she is satisfied with herself?

As a man, I would never be interested in trying to satisfy a woman that wants to be with a woman. It’s hard enough to satisfy a woman that wants to be with men, without adding the component of her also being interested in a relationship with women.
I don’t believe that a woman that is bisexual can be satisfied by just one person. A man can never truly know if she is satisfied with him because her mind is divided. He may never know, because her mind is all over the place. She wants a man today and a woman tomorrow. Who wants to deal with that? Maybe bisexual men and women can date each other–that way their thoughts are equally yoked.

Honest Truth and Confession

It used to be fun for a heterosexual man to date a bisexual woman, mainly because men have always had a fantasy about having sex with two women. But we never expected women to get serious about dating other women.

Yes, we are guilty of having purely selfish motives. Women previously referred to themselves as girlfriends and provided comfort and emotional support for each other, but sexual support was not calculated into the equation. Men cannot compete with a woman’s inner desires, and neither can another woman. If a person likes you, they like you; if they don’t, they don’t. It’s really about like minds attracting each other.

Need-Help-ad-3x2No one can compete with or satisfy that emotion, whether it is for men or women. It’s not about a man being everything she wants. No one person can be everything anyone wants, even if the person is androgynous.  Being and wanting someone that is androgynous is unrealistic. Although it exists, it is rare. Just because a person is androgynous doesn’t mean they will be able to satisfy both males and females physically, as well as mentally. You can manipulate, bend and expand your mind in any direction you choose.  But whether or not you find your answer being satisfied with a partner, male or female, has to do with you alone.

As men, we will never know if a bisexual woman is satisfied unless she tells us so.  In fact, he will never know if a heterosexual woman is satisfied unless she tells him so. In reality, you cannot satisfy someone else. You can only satisfy yourself and hope that you are doing a good job satisfying your partner.

Most men who have matured beyond the fantasy stage of their lives would realistically be a little less interested in a serious relationship with a woman who is not sure if she wants to be with a male or a female. Although nothing is impossible, it certainly would add to the complications of a relationship. Dating and having fun with a woman who is bisexual is much different from having a serious relationship.  We suggest if you are confused about which direction you want to go sexually, first decide what is best for you before entering a new relationship. Share with the man of your dreams your past and present sexuality. Be upfront and exercise full disclosure. Give him a choice about whether to move forward or not.  He will appreciate your honesty, which will create a greater bond between you.

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  1. While I can understand that you may feel insecure about being in a relationship with a bisexual female, being bisexual in no way means that you are “not sure whether [you] want to be with a male or a female”. Instead bisexuality means that you are open to being in a relationship with a member of either sex. Thank you for your “suggestion” but bisexuals don’t have to choose a gender, just to choose a person. To imply otherwise is offensive.
    Much of your opening paragraph talks about the relative superiority of a penis. As a male writing the phrase “[a] woman can never compete with a man that knows what he is doing in the bedroom” are you implying that male-male sexual experiences are therefore the greatest? Since women are not good in the bedroom. Or is is simply that you feel that all sexual relations should have the possibility of creating life? Thanks to modern technology (and indeed the tradition of adoption) a union can have offspring regardless of their components, whether these components be same sex or an infertile hetero couple.
    As a man presumably attracted solely to women do you find your mind to be “yolked” by your attraction to other women while you are in a relationship? And if not then why does a bisexual’s attraction to others make you so afraid? Just because someone is bisexual does not make them somehow fickle or non-monogamous.

    I find this article to be offensive in its ignorance.

    • How To Get The Man Of Your Dreams says:

      hi Pippa, the author is not suggesting that men be afraid of bi-sexual women or their relationships, he is simply stating that men should not worry about competing with a woman, because the nature and cause of each relationship is different. A man could never compete with a woman who desires another woman as a woman could never compete with a woman who desires a man. Thank you for you response.

    • Agreed!

  2. Luna LaCour says:

    This is biased and has not been researched well at all. The author clearly has no understanding of sexual orientation or it’s fluidity.

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