Meaning, for all of you women who think your vagina is made of gold, know this: Having sex with a guy is not the same as giving of yourself mentally and financially. Yes, we understand sharing yourself with a man is giving, but isn’t the man sharing himself with you as well? Where would you be without d***? You wouldn’t be able to make a sex toy if there were no d***s to model them after. So where would you be without a d*** in your life? Let’s be for real now. Are you ready? It’s about to get ugly in here.
I’m sick and tired of women thinking that their vagina (“va-jay-jay”) is an equal exchange of energy, comparable to going half on a dinner date and a movie. Just because you gave some va-jay-jay up? You’ve got to be kidding! How in the world do you think that is an equal exchange? Let me tell you why it is not. As soon as the guy has sex with you, he may or may not call you back. Ding! He may not even want to ever see you again. Ding! These are all signs that there was not an equal exchange of energy. If there were, the guy would certainly be calling you back for more reasons than just to have sex with you.
Women rely too much on their bodies and not enough of their mind, which is the tool that captures and keeps the Man of your Dreams (MOYD). It’s all mental! Which means that just because you had sex with the MOYD, you cannot sit there like your job is done. In reality, your job hasn’t even begun. A dog and a cat can sleep with each other and make a baby rat. Any two people that are male and female can sleep with each other, and they don’t even have to speak the same language.
It really sickens me to my stomach, putting so much value on something that a dog and cat can do on any given Sunday. Yes as men, we love to have sex, but as a woman, you also love d***. So what’s the problem?
Who do you think the condom was made for? It was not made for my d***. It was made because my d*** is going into your vagina. I don’t need a condom otherwise. So who is fooling whom? A woman’s biggest fear is that she will have sex with a man and he will not call her back. (Why He Had Sex and Did Not Call?) Women put too much emphasis on the actual act of sex. This is not how most men look at it. If you take your biggest fear and make it the least of your fears, you will dramatically increase your attraction and find and keep the man of your dreams. Why? Because you are no longer relying on your vagina and are now relying on your brains. Wow! What a difference a day makes.
The last thing a man wants to hear after you just had sex with him is, “All you wanted to do was have sex with me” or “It was just sex to you.” It’s like you did not receive the d***; like I did not just put in 90 minutes of blood, sweat and tears. How do you think your vagina got so hot or so dry? Because I was pumping the juice out of it. All the juice spilled over until there was none. Water break or oral sex? You choose. (Why Men Love Hot Vagina Juice in the Summer?)
In reality, you should be paying. Observation: You just lay there while I was putting in all the work. I was on top, entering at a 45-degree angle with perfect precision, and you were lying on your back. Try doing 10 push-ups, holding them for 20 seconds each time. That’s what it’s like, moving at a 45-degree angle for maximum penetration, without putting all my weight on you. Try it and see how exhausting it is, and you will get the point. Being on the bottom is the easy part. You didn’t even give me fellatio. (Oral Sex 101) But I did lick your vagina for 30 minutes, because it was dry. That’s on top of the 90 minutes I was stroking you. Yes, HTGTMOYD is getting down and dirty. We keep it real!
A woman sleeping with a man is not an equal exchange. It does not replace a home-cooked meal, dinner date, or any other kind of date. In fact, you should be paying for the dinner date after all of that work I put in. Too many women, after they have sex with a man who really puts in work, somehow find ways to blame him for the decision they made if things do not go the way they planned. Hey, ladies, if you decide to give up the va jay-jay, don’t come talking about it later like a poor sport, saying, “Oh, I had sex with you too quickly. I don’t usually do that.” Okay, what’s the problem? So, you don’t usually do that? Then why are we talking about it? It’s okay. It is not necessarily going to change my view of you. You never hear a man saying, “Aw, man, I gave up the d*** too soon!” Take some notes from us. We give you our best, right then and there, as you should if you decide to have sex. Give it your best shot and don’t worry about it. Make a decision about whether you are going to give it up or not, and be done. The vagina is not the golden fleece that captures the golden goose, as society has made you believe. This is why so many women are terrified that a man will not call them back after having sex. (All Vaginas are Not Sexually Pleasing to the Male Species as Assumed) Simply put, it is obvious that all vaginas are not good, as all d*** is not good. The less you rely on your vagina, the more you develop the necessary skills to find and keep the man of your dreams.
HowToGettheManofYourDreams.com was created to help you see a relationship with a man from a different point of view, one that will create more success and understanding between you and the MOYD.