What Does The Old Adage “Be Friends First” Have To Do With Dating?

Perhaps the key to a successful and long lasting relationship is true friendship.  Without friendship, you are having nothing but a sexual escapade.  This is […]

How Does A Women Go From A Starting Position To A Bench Player?

A man can flip the relationship on you in a second. You know you really messed up when a man gives you back all the […]

How Did I Let Her Get Away?

What makes a man think about you years later? Is it his having been so close to having sex with you but never got to […]

Keeping the Haters Away from Your Relationship

Just think how many relationships have been destroyed by haters! You know the scenario: you had a positive gut instinct about the new gentlemen you […]

Matricide: Life’s Little Dating Lessons

We usually end up dating the person we need, as oppose to the person we want. How does that happen? Proverbs 9:1, states “Wisdom has […]

How Important is Food to a Healthy Relationship?

Food and romance are a complicated pairing. Some foods are aphrodisiacs, whereas others are irritants; you and your partner might follow very different diets; you […]

How Important Is It To Check A Man’s Belief System Before Dating?

How important it IS to check out a man’s belief system before dating him really depends  on your intent.  Are you just casually dating or […]

Do You Have What It Takes To Date An Alpha Male?

An Alpha male: he is the leader of the pack; he dominates pretty much anything and everything around him, and expects you to be just […]

How To Keep the Attention of the Man You’re Dating 101

Every woman looks good to a man for 2.5 seconds, but how do you truly attract and keep the attention of this potential Man of […]

33 + Extraordinary Questions You Should Ask Before Dating

If I had taken my time and asked half of these deal-breaker questions before dating, I would not have suffered in nearly as many broken […]

The Top 40 ½ Rookie Mistakes a Woman Makes When Dating

1. Calling the police before taking responsibility for your own actions. (Should You Ever Call 911 on Your Man) 2. Not truly listening to what […]

Switching from Dating Women to Dating Men

So how do you switch to dating men when 3/4 of your dating life has been dating women? First, before we start this interview, let’s […]

What to Do If Your Husband or Boyfriend Tells You You’re Not Sexy

What happened? You used to be sexy in the man of your dreams (MOYD) eyes, and now he is telling you that you no longer […]

How Do Single Men View Dating Women with Children?

As I think back to when I was single and childless, it was the craziest thing in my mind to date a woman who had […]

The Art of Being Patient – Dating 101

One of the two biggest keys to creating a successful relationship is being patient, truly spending time to get to know the other person before […]

Dating The Unrealistic Woman

Okay, once again, here’s the scenario. You call up a male friend in another city, say Los Angeles, and say, “Hey, I am coming into […]

18 Things to Say (and NOT to Say) if Your Man is in Jail

In remembrance of our men and women behind bars (Hebrews 13:3, Matthew 7:12) With the ever-increasing number of laws in our society, your man may […]

Dating & the Desperate 30’s

Here is an unspoken truth: A man can feel when a woman he is dating is desperate. She is so desperate to get married that […]

That is Not Your Daddy!

Let’s have a little fun today and a good laugh! Why would a woman ever want to deny that her baby’s daddy is the father […]

Affidavit and Confession of an International Player

Note: The principles in this article can be applied to both men and women, substituting the feminine for the masculine. My failed relationships result from […]

10 Dating Tips on How to Be Different From the Competition!

Attracting the Man of your Dreams (MOYD) is about being different from the competition.  Attraction is not being typical, and to be typical and expect […]

Dating A Married Man In An Open Relationship

Can a married man truly love the other woman?  First, stop!  I know what you are thinking. What? Who? Huh?  It is important to remember […]

How Does A Man Become A Player On The Dating Scene?

There would be many lonely nights, lying here in bed all alone, if I sat around waiting for one woman to call me back. It […]

Should Your Girlfriend Get Between You & The Man Who is Trying To Have a Conversation With You?

Why do women think its okay to talk to a man any way they want to, and still expect men to give them respect?  Are […]

Dating 102: Weighing The Pros and Cons

Wisdom is accepting things for the way they are; it’s understanding those ingrained traits in another person that you cannot change. These traits are so […]

Dating the Insecure Woman vs. the Secure Woman? Part 2

continued from Part I, Dating the Insecure Woman vs Secure Woman Excessive calls to his place of employment – What are you trying to do? […]

Dating the Insecure Woman vs. the Secure Woman

Men love women who are secure and loathe women who are not. We know females do crazy things when they love hard. But all too […]

What Does It Mean When A Man Says He Is “Kind Of Dating Another Woman?”

What does it mean when you go on a first date with a man and he tells you he is kind of seeing another woman, […]

5 Ways to Know the Man You’re Dating is a User

A man who is a user is truly not interested in you–only what you can offer.  All his initial questions relate to your job, career […]

What Does a Man Consider Proper Hygiene for a Woman He is Dating?

When Does It Start to Matter? It is one of many double standards that some men have opted to adopt: Although it may be common […]

Women Are Too Smart These Days

Online Dating Before we even had a phone conversation she Googled me. What the heck?  This is a Google invasion of privacy.  Geeez!  Ladies, yes […]

Why African American Men Date Outside of Their Race: A Mathematical Breakdown

How To Get the man of your dreams.com has decided to tackle one of the toughest and most controversial subjects of our century, with a solution […]

Sweet 16 Signs That Your Man Has Class and Maturity

There are two sides to every coin, so it should come to no surprise that for every gentleman roaming this earth, there also exists a […]

Is Race Still Relevant in the Dating World?

No, race is no longer relevant, and if you think race is a significant issue you are living with primitive thinking. The reason race is […]

Five Magic Words the Man You’re Dating Wants You to Say

Understanding how to speak to the man of your dreams can be the difference between having a partner who listens to what you have to […]

What to Bring (and What Not to Leave) When You Visit the Man You’re Dating

Ending up at his place for the first few times is pretty exciting and nerve-wracking all on its own. Understanding that what you do and […]

The Truth About Double Standards in Dating

Do you ever wonder why a woman who acts the same way a man does in the dating world becomes less attractive to other men? […]

How to Take Care of the Man You’re Dating 101

Okay ladies, this is a 100-level course, which means the work load won’t be too bad, and as long as you read the material, it […]

How to Get What You Want from the Man You’re Dating

The solution is often the opposite of what is expected. Whether you’re dating or in a relationship, following these principles will always lead to getting […]

Dating the Older Man

Ever wonder why you see more couples of younger women with older men than vice-versa? There is a pretty simple explanation. Older men are a […]

Dating the Younger Man

We know women tend to outlive men. Combine that with the fact that there are more women than men in the world’s population, and it’s […]

22 Gifts That Say “I Love You, Baby” Without Breaking the Bank

Searching for the perfect gift for your man, but on a tight budget? No worries – here at How to Get the Man of Your […]

Our Biggest Dating Turn Offs

Sometimes self sabotage can get in the way of finding the perfect job, seizing opportunities and finding the man of your dreams. One sure way […]

How to Interpret a Man’s Approach in 60 Seconds or Less

First of all, you must understand that approaching you, from our point of view, is very hard. We know a lot of men say that […]

First Date Dealbreakers

What are things that a woman does on a first date that send a good man running for the hills? Well, we’ll tell you… But […]