What is the difference between present day society and from our society 40 years ago? Why are there so many divorces, broken homes, and single parents today as opposed to yesterday? What is the one variable in a relationship that has changed from that period until now? Women.
Women have too many choices like the proverbial Eve in the Garden of Eden. Equal rights have gone to women’s heads, the single factor that has changed drastically over the past 40 years. Men are still the same, trudging along through life as they had before, to bring home the bacon and take care of their families. On the other hand women have become more like men instead of the nurturing mothers they were years ago. Women are confused. They do not know if they want to be bosses or mothers. You cannot serve two masters. Something has to suffer.
Women in America are in conflict with themselves because they have been granted the opportunity to do whatever they desire. Many choose to be like men and bring home the money. So if both parents are working, who is raising the children and giving them the love, hugs and kisses they need? That chore is left to babysitting factories and television programs that are too advanced for even young adults to follow.
Where is the love of our mothers and grandmothers of yesterday?
Many women do not want to or even know how to cook these days. There is no love in the fast food we eat. Remember the old saying, “You are what you eat?” If there is no love in the food we are growing up eating, how can there be love in us and in our hearts? It is something about that image of grandma making freshly baked chocolate chip cookies in the kitchen that makes you smile and warms your heart. Not only did they taste good, but they left a lifetime impression. You could feel the love grandma put into her special batch.
Babysitters / Daycare
Putting your child in daycare is not the optimal way to input love into the hearts and minds of children. True, you have your exceptions to the rule, but modern daycare facilities are more about the money than it is about instilling love, and good values into the children. All you have to do is look at the results of today’s society compared to yesterday’s results and ask yourself as we build more jails, have we become a better society?
Honestly although I believe in equal opportunity for all, it should be considered that when women have the choice more have chosen to speak and act more like men. There can be no order in a home when you have two conflicting ruling parties with equal status.
Have you been to Facebook lately? Have you seen the vast numbers of half-dressed women with their booties purposely pointed in the direction of the camera? What does it mean when a woman takes a picture for the general public and purposely points her butt towards the camera? Is she saying do you want to get to know my nice butt? Many of these women have kids, some on the photos right along with them. What kind of examples is she and the many other women setting for the younger generations of women that look up to them? I am not sure, but it is clearly a stretch from the examples set by women 40 years ago.
There are many issues we need to leave in the past, but there are also many values we should consider holding onto. We have to incorporate some basic desires and principals that we should stand by and keep or we are literally doomed as a society. We will have failed our children’s future.
Why do women argue with men as if they are men? (Understanding What is The Proper Role of a Man in the Relationship) Why do women act tougher than men in the same positions of authority? A woman police officer, judge, or manager always seems to be tougher than her male counterparts in the same position. Does her desire to be someone she was not intended to be affect her maternal nature? Are these very conflicts creating more and more confusion in our society? This crisis has even resulted in more and more women dating each other. Or is it that this is what some women desired to do all along?
It is easy to blame a man, or perhaps a bad experience with a man, as a reason for a woman dating another woman. Maybe this is what they had desired to do and now found a nice scapegoat to blame for their actions. We have witnessed some strange decisions that have been openly made by women over the past 40 years. Is this not consistent with the choice made by Eve in a garden that was perfect? Perfect was not good enough for this woman.
Can women have their cake and eat it too? Can women truly have successful careers and produce healthy, happy children without supplying the necessary motherly love? Is a mother’s love for a couple hours a day during the week enough love for a child? Can somebody else raising our children give them enough love to become healthy, productive, human beings? Although more women are in the workforce, it seems that we have neglected our children as a trade off. Men are still doing what they have always done. The only real change is that women are no longer doing what they use to do. Women are taking on new roles, so who is replacing the mother of yesterday? Daycare and TV?
A woman from another country told me, “America is a country made for women. It caters to women and is a woman’s dream.”
As a result of a woman being able to make her own choices you can clearly see what is on her mind if her mind is allowed to wander. It appears that although some desire to be mothers, it is not on their high priority list. Many are now waiting later and later in life to have children. They also do not necessarily want to even raise their own children. Many kids are now attended to by nannies or daycare facilities.
So let’s look at the choices women have made over the past 40 years that differ greatly from their past counterparts: Many women choose to dress half naked but do not want to be harassed or disrespected. Women act like and compete with men on the job for the same positions but want to be treated like ladies other times when it is convenient. So many women wonder why they are single and cannot find a man. (Understanding Why You Are Beautiful and Still Single) Maybe they need to take a vacation to another country so that they can be reminded of how women of yesterday treated and supported their men with love and respect.
Does total freedom of choice corrupt women’s minds and put them in conflict with their inner selves and the natural role of men? Having freedom of choice put Eve into conflict with the Creator and Adam. It’s food for thought.