Why African American Men Date Out of Their Race a Mathematical Equation: Part II: The Solution

Bride and Groom on Their Wedding DayContinued from Part 1

The Bible is really a scientific manuscript for keeping your vibrations high. In other words it is a equivalent to a living mathematical equation without having to physically do the math problem. It appears clear that God already knew many of us would not want to calculate the equations necessary for successful relationships, so he embedded the formulas for success in stories and parables in the Bible so we only have to follow the steps.

How easy is that? Maybe not so easy…

The problem many African American women have had to face with their increased success in education and the work force is often raising their families as mothers involve a disproportionate number of African American men being mentally and physically unavailable due to high incarceration rates, high unemployment, addictions to drugs and alcohol and a lack of education. (12 Ways To Help the Man of Your Dreams Get Over a Drug or Alcohol Addiction) A system certainly designed with the same intent and formula the serpent used to divide Adam and Eve from the divine creator, to get the exact results desired, pushing the black woman further away from the black man and the creator in ways she may not even realize. (Understanding How To Show Yourself Self Approved – Stand By the Man of Your Dreams) Nothing has changed; Satan’s game is still the same.

For example, when a black woman receives assistance on Section 8 Housing Program, she is not legally allowed for her man or father of her children to live with her. So if the father of her children is living with her, she has to conceal it from the government and deceived her children or lose her benefits. Satan already understands the underlying negative energy created, and his plan works perfectly. It is he who created the manipulations, high employment, supplies a constant supply of drugs and alcohol, while at the same time miseducating the public. In this one instance she lives a double negative; First, she relies on the government as her savior and deceives the very entity she relies on for support. Second, she now effeminates the father and children. She unknowingly steals the father’s masculine virility, the problem, and the exact opposite of the solution needed for him and her to become successful mentally and spiritually. Unless the error is recognized and corrected, the same failed mistakes will only repeat themselves. Satan already knew this would be the case, there are no free lunches. (Why the Concept of Free Does Not Exist in a Successful Relationship)

God gave the woman and man specific instructions on how to overcome these pitfalls and he also gave consequences if we failed to obey. The solution to solving the problem of why black men date out of their race lies in God’s word. In order to solve the problem, the black woman has to go back to her feminine roots to win her black man back. She must also use this same formula to help regain his consciousness to become successful. He is nothing without her support. (Genesis 3:16)

The woman was deceived by Satan from the beginning and is being deceived now through false idols to include but not limited to money or fiat currency, luxury cars, homes, jewelry, job security, etc. She loves the material possessions of the world more than God who blessed her with these very gifts. (1 John 2:15-16)

How would the black woman define her role in the community/family if these material possessions were not available? In order to received God’s blessings, she has to return to God’s word and follow the instructions or she will forever continue to received the curses instead of the blessings of companionship. This advice goes vice versa.

The problem is the black woman has failed to remember her true feminine nature through her greatly increased independence and responsibilities to support her family and by design goes against the success of the family structure, her masculinity infringes on her man. When a woman becomes to masculine she in fact consumes a man’s masculine virility making him effeminate and ineffective. (John Baines: Science of Love) As a result that man becomes more like a woman and her strengths become his weaknesses. Ladies to be more feminine is the key to building up your attraction and finding and keeping the Man of Your Dream (MOYD). God’s word says a woman should be a helpmate and bare children, but today women desire to be the Bosses, CEO’s and manager’s.

In the Good News Translation of the Holy Bible with the Deuteracanonicals/Apocrypha, In the Book of SIRACH or Ecclesiastics, it states, “when a man is supported by a Wife, there is sure to be anger, arrogance, and humiliation.” To be feminine and supportive of the MOYD is not weakness, but strength and obedience to God’s word.

African American black women have been unknowingly compelled ahead of their counterparts in the fields of education, employment, finances, etc., to further break down the family structure. Satan hates God’s word and knows it better than we do. He plots against it day and night looking to kill and destroy relationships, especially of those who love God. He provides opportunities to those he chooses and those who subsequently accept his oath through his World system. The same system he offered to give Jesus if he would only kneel and worship him. (Matthew 4:1-11) Satan now tempts and pimps women through material possessions and pride, just as he did Eve in the Garden of Eden. (Genesis 3:1-6) Consequently the African American black woman, labeled America’s #1 consumer, steals from the man she desires through her own personal desires for material possessions. When dating or married to a strong man this will create a conflict between the positive and negative poles of masculine and feminine energy (What is the Proper Role of a Man in a Relationship?). In order for men and women to reach true love, a man most remain fully masculine and a woman must remain fully feminine. Many black women have unfortunately due to the challenges faced in society and material desires have become to masculine and only through following God’s word will they fully recover their lost blessings and lift the curses off of themselves, the black man and the children.

The Black woman must remember that although they are propelled forward in society, often without the black man, they should adopt the motto of the U.S. Armed Services, “leave no man behind.”

So what does it mean in our modern day society to leave no man behind? Watch BBC Video: Planet Earth/Emperor Penguins, to see what God intended for Men and Women without man’s modern influence. Sometimes to understand our mistakes we have to go back to the basics.

Here is my summary on the BBC video Planet Earth/Emperor Penguins;

Humans have totally forgotten how to come together as one to support each other as a family. The male emperor penguins who banded together were amazing and by sticking together created a more successful chance of surviving the cold winter as oppose to the Lone Polar bear working by himself. (Ecclesiastes 4:9-12) The Polar bear starved to death unnecessarily when food was so close. But the group of Penguins by working together as one group survived what would have otherwise been unbearable temperatures in the Arctic winter if they had to do it alone. In this relational role it was the male penguin’s job to keep the eggs warm and protected while it was the female penguin’s role to travel hundreds of miles to the ocean to get food. If the female Penguins would not have returned all would have been lost, males and babies and what a tragedy it have been. But thankfully our hearts were not broken in tragedy, but celebrated and rejoiced in the return of the female penguins. What a beautiful sight was it to see, the trail of female penguins coming over the horizon with food for their mates who had not eaten in four months was amazing. Each male and female penguin gladly accepted their perspective roles that were bestowed upon them. Isn’t that what’s needed in the Black community today?

In our modern day era, women need men to have children, but many feel it is perfectly ok to raise a child as a single parent. (Understanding the Abusive Behavior of Despicable Moms) This behavior is not the will of God and goes against nature. Our society is very sick and once again Satan strikes. We are failing our families, we are failing our children, because both men and women fail to accept their perspective roles and responsibilities and most importantly we have failed to support and love one another, thus failing to follow and obey God’s word. It is no different from losing a finger,toe, arm or limb, etc. Our strength is in togetherness and our weakness is in separation. (Galatians 5: 14) Quite simply, a failure to follow God’s word.





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