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The One Problem With Being his Booty Call

 

 

 

 

 

Well first let’s define Booty Call.  According to Urbandictionary.com definition numero 2. breaks it down pretty clear: Booty Call(noun) a phone call, page,or conversation aimed at getting into your pants. Not an invite to a movie or dinner, not just coffee, not a casual or formal get-together, just plain old-fashioned “let’s have sex”.

“I woke at 4 a.m. with a massive erection. I picked up the phone and gave Ruthie a call.”

This type of relationship seems to be the ideal situation for most single, hard working career focused men with families and girlfriends.  We find nothing wrong with this if you are 100% aware of what you are getting into and can keep your feelings in check. HOWEVER…more often than not feelings sneak up on women in these type of relationships and once the sex act is over it can leave the woman feeling like there is something missing. Now if UN-attached and sex is the fix you truly want then there are plenty of pickings out there to choose from but you must ask yourself some very honest questions.

Why do I want sex without love, and commitment?

Is it because I want to fulfill my sexual needs or is it because I am tired of being hurt by men and this is a sure fire way to not let them in….no pun intended.

Ladies, the only way a man can hurt you is if you allow it. (When to Have Sex with the Man of You’re Dating)  Do not blame him, this is not OK, because you must be first to take responsibility for your own actions.

The act of sex is very bonding whether you realize this or not. It is not just about the exchange of bodily fluids but there is also an exchange of energy as well.  The very future of planet earth lies in those fluids.   Mix this with scientific data that supports how hormones are produced during sex that creates bonds and you are quite certain to have a recipe for emotional attachment mainly on the woman’s part. This is why you will hear a lot of women say “Why can’t I leave him alone when I know he’s no good for me?”

According to the following article on LiveScience.com “In women, oxytocin is released. It’s a chemical that makes women want to nurture their young and stay close. Men get a huge jolt of testosterone, which suppresses oxytocin, and that’s nature’s way of saying, ‘Leave the nest and go sire offspring somewhere else.’ So when women think they can have sex and walk away just like guys do, they’re having to suppress thousands of years of evolution that tells them to cuddle.”

Now we know what some of you ladies are going to say, which is that it happens to guys as well. Yes you are correct, but with men it is not as hormonal and has more to do with their attraction, lust and how you make them feel. Where as with women there is an invisible bond that is being created. If you are having amazing sex being his Booty Call over and over and over again you are sure to sing the blues once he finds his ideal mate and stops seeing you.

Now this unique relationship will be all fine with you until your Booty Call meets The Woman Of His Dreams. (HowToGetTheWomanOfYourDreams.com) So without judgement we understand the need and desire for Booty Calls, but we want to educate you and help you understand that these situations do not always have the most positive outcomes. Someone (usually the woman) typically gets their feelings hurt and is left with a broken heart and they will usually ask themselves “How did this happen to me when all I wanted was just sex?” You have the oxytocin to thank for this. Hopefully this article will help you out and for those who are looking for late night Booty Calls…you’ve been warned.

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