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What Do You Do If You Have Occasional Great Sex, But Your Man Can Only Ejaculate While Watching Porn Videos?

Well, ladies, I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but it’s not a good sign if your man can only ejaculate while watching porn videos. But there is hope.

If your man does not want to speak about his lack of action or failure to ejaculate during sex, he may not feel you are strong enough to handle the truth and still love him. So our goal, of course, is to show him that you are strong enough to not only handle the truth but to make the necessary changes to solve the problems with your sex life.

Remember, no matter how comfortable you make it for your man to communicate his innermost feelings, it will take some time for him to truly be able to trust you and discuss his desires for another woman or, in some instances, a man. Men can be very immature. Our desire to sleep with other women has very little to do with you. It’s the nature of the beast. We are selfish and do not want women to act as we do. We prefer y0u to be examples of how to behave with the Man of Your Dreams. In short, we want to sleep with other women, but do not want our women sleeping with other men. This is a part of our makeup, much like instinct. It can be explained scientifically, but most men simply know they do not like their women to have sex with other men.

You can think of a million different possibilities for what could be wrong (“Am I too fat?” “Am I too skinny?” “Is my vagina too loose or too big?”), and drive yourself insane. However, most of the time his lack of desire for sex with you will not have anything to do with you, but rather with his past memories and innermost wants and needs. (All Vaginas Are Not Sexually Pleasing to the Male Species as Assumed)

It’s true you may not be the woman of his dreams. But there are dreams and then there is reality. So stay focused, and let’s bring your man back to reality with the woman he truly loves and not the false images that plague his mind from watching staged pornography, which is telling him lies through visuals. He’s jacking off to a screenplay. The characters are not reality but fictions that have embedded themselves into his mind like a virus. So let’s go eliminate the symptoms of this flu.

When it comes to a serious commitment, a man can do a quick double-take as his energies shift. He sees his single life fading away, and he is stricken with fear. Many of the traditional roles in relationships are also shifting, as women take on more leadership and financial responsibility. Men will sometimes be with you just for the amenities you provide, much like the women of yesterday would use a man. (5 Sure Ways to Know if the Man You’re Dating is a User)    Side note: If you are paying the bills, it is not an unreasonable request to make of your man to have great sex with you once a week.

But your goal is to obviously get what you want: more sex and more communication. So let’s stay focused. We are sure that you are asking yourself the big question: “Why would my man not want to communicate with me about his inability to perform sexually in the bedroom?” The huge reason that most men choose to remain silent is to avoid conflict. We also know that most women do not want to hear anything different than the traditional “Boy meets girl, boy marries girl, boy and girl have 2.5 kids and live happily ever after, the end.” Every man with any intelligence knows this is all that a woman truly wants to hear. Everything else is irrelevant. Men also instinctively know that how we feel naturally is in conflict with the natural pull of women to be with just one man. The average man is scared to death to tell his woman the truth if it is contrary to her beliefs and desires.

Age does matter

There is an old saying: “Patience is a virtue.” Dealing with male issues, you will soon learn what this means. Be patient with your man, stay focused on your goal and realize a lot of men need to grow up. And through experience, they eventually  will.

How do you get your man’s attention without pestering him for more sex?

Your man loves you like wifey, but the wifey role can be quite boring. So how do you keep him excited about you and away from the porn videos? How do you keep him only humping on you? Can you be the wifey and allow him to have additional sex partners? I know that’s one hell of a question. But before you go there, be honest with yourself about your sexual needs. Let’s send a message to your man to give you more hot sex, without you ever having to say a word. There’s something very sexy about a lady that never complains, but still finds a way to get what she wants. Obviously, if you are reading this article, we are speaking about you.

Using Mr. Dildo can send a clear message to your man without insulting him or having a long, drawn- out conversation about not having enough sex, which is boring. Here’s the strategy: Conveniently use your sex toy every time your man comes home. Be extra excited to the point where it is noticeable. Remember that acting class you took? Timing, of course is everything, so once he enters the house, it’s a go. Go into the bathroom and close the door, so that he hears you having all this fun and starts knocking. “Honey, you okay in there by yourself?” Of course, you can barely respond because you and Mr. Dildo are going at it. You say, out of breath, “I‘m okay, honey… be right out…you hungry?” Mr. Dildo is your new best friend, so dress him up in a shirt and tie and set him up properly on your dresser with a little note that says, ”I will be back later for more.” There is talking and there is pure action. A sex toy represents the action you desire from your man, without a long conversation.

Do you want to know more?

The following is a checklist of tips to improve your sex life:

1      It is possible that your vagina may be too stretched and out of shape, making it indiscernible to your man’s penis. To a man, this is a super-uncomfortable feeling. We recommend Kegel exercises for you to tighten up the muscles in your vagina. This will greatly improve the feeling when the MOYD is making love to you. He will be like, “Ooh-wee, that’s what I’m talking about. Come here, baby!” (All Vaginas Are Not Sexually Pleasing to the Male Species as Assumed)

2     Do you know how to properly jack your man off? Believe it or not, many women have absolutely no clue. As a general rule, never, never dry-jack a man off, meaning never attempt to jack a man off for more than 30 seconds without grabbing some kind of lubricant. You say no lotion or oil is available because you are in the moment? That’s okay. Reach into your pants, stick your fingers in your vagina and grab some vagina juice. (Why Men Love Hot Vagina Juice In The Summer?)  That will do the trick, and if all else fails you can always use the saliva from your mouth.(Oral Sex 101: What You Need To Know )

3.  Does your man truly know how freaky you are? Some of you ladies have played the saint role so well that you man is afraid to do sexual acts you both would enjoy. He would do these with some other unsuspecting woman with whom he is cheating on you, but not with you, because he thinks you are too nice for that kind of stuff. In the back of your mind you are saying “ Give it to me, baby,” but it does not quite come out of your mouth that way, and in the front of his mind he is saying, “I really want to go deep and give to her like I would do to Sally, but I don’t think she would like it.” Solution? Yell out, “Give it to me, baby!” Egg him on. Tell him how much you like and want him to go deep, or whatever it is you desire. (Should Women Talk Trash During Sex?)

4.  Role playing. Ladies, please take off those granny panties and that boring outfit you wear around the house on a daily basis. You have to treat your man like a stranger sometimes, especially if you want to keep that flame hot. Don’t just get dressed up when you are going out with your friends. Dress up for your man all the time. Your man walks in from a hard day on the job, sees you all dressed up and looking good and says, “Baby, where are you going tonight?” You say, “Nowhere, baby, but right here. This is all for you.” Wow, what a mind-blower. “All for me?” I can see his smile now. You must remember to continue to do all the things  you did to attract your man in the beginning of your relationship. Keep it sexy and hot, always!

5.  Aromatherapy. Does your vagina have no smell? (Why Men Love Hot Vagina Juice In The Summer?) Ladies, don’t be so clean that you have cleaned all of the natural smell right out of your vagina. Men actually love a woman whose vagina smells like one. Need I say more?

6.  Build up his ego. Just remember to add these five little words in front of everything you say to the MOYD: “ You can do it, baby!” (The Five Magic Words the Man You’re Dating Secretly Wants You to Say). If he is cooking you dinner, really does not know how to cook, but is trying, say, “You can do it, baby!” If he is trying to please you orally, but does not really know what he is doing, say, “You can do it, baby!” Just get in the habit of saying it over and over. Oh, and when he wants to c** all over your forehead and into your hair, say, ”You can do it, baby!”

7.  Investigate- Take an interest in watching the porn videos with you man, mainly to see and try to understand what he is so attracted to in the video and then steal their ideas. Well this should be quite easy, just pay close attention to the moment he ejaculates in the video, is it at the same place and point every time, 5 minutes and 22 seconds into the video?  Pay close attention to what he is getting off on and duplicate if possible.   Disclosure: This is the one time we condone legal stealing.  Throw on that blond wig if you must, all is fair in love and war and this is your relationship and you must do what you can to save it and bring that spark back.

The real question is, how do you manage such an awkward moment in your relationship? If you change the way you look at it, than you can change the outcome in your favor. I know what you’re saying: “What? But this was not part of the package I agreed to!” We understand, but are also here to get you and your man back on track. So put your pride to the side, put your big-girl panties on, and let’s get to work. So your man is a having a little issue in the bedroom with the porn videos. We advise you to take the same disgusted, negative energy your are feeling at this very moment and change your approach, by taking this new found information and turning it into an adventure. With this change in attitude, you will have a better chance of changing the outcome in your favor. We understand that a man who has to watch a porn video by himself in order to ejaculate is a slap in the face, but we are on your side and are here to help you get the power back. “You can do it, baby!”

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