Has your man ever asked you to not take a shower before sex? If so, he is telling you that he wants to smell the natural you.
Women have become too clean nowadays. Leave the vagina (va-jay-jay) alone, please! The vagina has a natural smell for a reason, which is to let us know whether it is safe to go in or not. It also lets you know if something is internally wrong. If you douche all the smell away (Monistat, creams, gels, suppositories, etc.), how will you know there is a problem? Anyone can take a shower and cover up a temporary smell for the first five minutes.
Men love the natural aroma of a good, healthy vagina. It is a natural, built-in pheromone and your signature scent. So, don’t rush home to take a hot shower before sex. Get hot and sweaty with your man, then take the hot shower. We often miss that natural smell, and when we find a woman who has it, it’s like a breath of fresh air. We say to ourselves, “This is what a vagina is supposed to smell like.” It’s wonderful turn-on (How To Know if You Have the Bomb-Dot-Com Vajajay?).
Vaginas are too clean these days. Women have douched out the natural smell and it now no longer holds the same turn-on power. One smells just like the other, so there is no discernible difference between you and the next woman. This is why there is nothing like hot, sweaty sex in the summertime. It’s sexy! Why is it sexy, you ask? It’s sexy because it’s natural and imperfect.
We know you may feel a little bit uncomfortable, because what we are saying is perhaps different from what you have heard, and what society has been promoting since the era of douche products began. But trust us, we are giving you an honest opinion, and it’s not only based upon what men think. It is safer for your health.
Some younger men, in their 20s and 30s, may not be able to appreciate the natural smell because, growing up in an era in which douche products dominated the market, they may have never known what a good, healthy vagina should smell like. Do not worry about what they think. Do you. Be you. It’s always best. Do not worry about having the perfect scent, because there is no perfect scent. This is the key. Your scent is personally yours, and it cannot be duplicated by another woman. This is what makes it so special.
You can easily turn the tables in your favor. (Women have the Power to Help Men Become Better) You may be thinking that men are not going to be attracted to you if they get a whiff, or if your vagina does not smell like what is considered perfect (i.e., no smell). So long as your vagina does not have a fishy smell, our reaction will be the opposite of what you expect. Have you ever noticed a man smelling your panties? He’s not smelling your panties because he thinks you’re cheating. He’s smelling your panties because he wants to smell the real you. Trust us on this one. If he picked up your panties and they had an awful, fishy smell, he would not try to smell them again, and more than likely, you would not see him again, either. A man smelling your panties is the equivalent of a woman smelling her man’s shirt.
More than likely, unless you’re bisexual (How Do Men Really Feel about Ms. Bisexual?), you will never know what other women smell like. We are here to tell you that most have no smell, because they have douched it away. Now that you have this knowledge, use it to your advantage and leave your vagina alone or find natural cleansing remedies that don’t affect your body’s pH, or natural balance.
Smell, when you think about it, is a natural balance. A little too tart means, uh-oh, something is wrong, so you run to the pharmacy or doctor to bring yourself back into balance.
We love a hot vagina in the summertime and find it very sexy, because it catches you in that most natural moment when you are vulnerable and concerned about your cleanliness. We find your vulnerability cute and sexy all at the same time. It shows your innocence and makes us want you more.
“Give it to me right now!”
“No, Steve, I want to run and take a shower.”
“But I haven’t showered all day.”
We love to catch you in that natural, unscripted and unprepared state of being. Perhaps it goes back to Jane and our caveman mentality.
Why does a woman’s natural smell turn men on? For the same reason we spend most of our lives trying to return to the place from which we first emerged into this world: the womb. Whether or not men consciously or subconsciously understand our behavior, we do remember the smell and the happiness of the first time we stuck our finger in a va-jay-jay. For one, not even soap could get the smell off our finger, and we were scared that someone else would smell it and discover what we had been doing.
Sometimes that smell would be there for two days, and we would have to hide our finger in our pocket. What we don’t tell you is that when no one is looking, we sniff that finger over and over. Even as adults, men still do the same thing. Don’t let us fool you.
Also, for most women, this was the same age, your teens, at which you didn’t really know how to douche and your knowledge of all the latest chemical products was very limited. It is that gray area in a woman’s life that comes between learning about and knowing her body. Like little boys in a candy store, men remember that moment of you in your most natural state. How could any man forget a smell that is so unique?
Furthermore, your smell can be used as a security mechanism to help prevent your man from cheating. This is one of the most important secrets about a woman having her natural scent. It can be helpful to prevent cheating, because even a woman knows when her man has been in another woman’s va-jay-jay by the smell alone. “Do I smell some vagina juice in here?”
But if you douche that smell away, not only have you gotten rid of your natural pheromone, you have also killed part of your security system. Having your natural scent works in your favor in more ways than one. Imagine if you knew what Beyoncé’s va-jay-jay smelled like. You would be like, “Oh s###, my man has been cheating with Beyoncé!” A woman’s natural smell is almost like a fingerprint. You can match that smell up with the guilty party. In addition, please remember it can sometimes take up to a couple of days to get another woman’s scent off a man she has just been with. He may have to duck and dodge you to escape detection. If you see any of these behaviors, you will know that your man has been dipping into someone else’s va-jay-jay. If you have no smell, you have no protection. A man will want to cheat, but he will be like, “Oh no, Suzy, I can’t do that. I need at least two days to get the smell off me before my girl comes back!”
It took a long time for me to realize exactly what happened to the natural smell of a woman’s vagina. Yes, I went through the phase where if a va-jay-jay had a smell, I considered it a turnoff, mainly because this is what society promoted via douche products. But when I finally had a relationship with a woman who did not use these chemicals, I could not get enough of her natural scent. I was always between her legs for the smell alone. When I would think of her, her natural scent would be calling my name: “Come hither, young man.” I was like, “Oh, gosh!”
Your natural smell is another very important tool in keeping the man of your dreams. It is unique, and 90 percent of the women in our society have douched it away. So now that you know, separate yourself from the others and reclaim it. Share it with the man of your dreams. He will know, consciously or subconsciously, that he has something special.
Also, vaginas that have been routinely chemically douched can have the opposite effect and become irritating to a sensitive man’s nose. If he smells one, he has smelled them all. There is no surprise waiting in the candy box. Who wants to smell a bunch of chemicals? The reason we love hot va-jay-jay in the summertime is that all of that chemical stuff fails. It goes out the window with the heat. No matter how much you try to keep yourself together, heat creates sweat, cleansing the body, and even the women who are best at trying to remain composed are going to get a little funky. This is great; this lets us know that you are human.
There’s something about the heat of the summertime, the flowers and birds singing and bees buzzing, that is beautiful. Everything seems to want to bloom and be happier. You remember that hot sex session in the summer more than warm sex in the winter. There is perhaps more passion and intensity in the summer. Love and lust are in the air. People are naturally freer, exposing their body parts. It’s just a lovely time. Sex in the summer is at its best. You’re lubricated, sweating, breathing hard, trying to catch your breath, complaining about the heat, but just had the best hot bikram yoga sex session ever. All of your muscles are stretched out and you have been in positions you had only dreamed about. Even though you want to be clean and smelling your best on a hot summer day, it’s almost impossible, and we love that vulnerability.
Perhaps men love hot vagina juice because it’s purely and simply you.